Dan Savage ([syndicated profile] savagelove_feed) wrote2025-06-17 11:00 am

Straight Kinksters at Pride?

Posted by Nancy Hartunian

We start the show with two calls concerning the “post nut” state of mind. One man hates that he becomes selfish and unresponsive so much that he chooses not to come at all. Another wonders if we should start calling it “post-nut confusion.” Just in time for Pride, it’s a new After-Action Report! Hear the … Read More »

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Dan Savage ([syndicated profile] savagelove_feed) wrote2025-06-17 11:00 am

Had To Getaway

Posted by Tracey Cataldo

Dear Readers: I’m at a family event — a happy one — this week. This column originally appeared in July 2013. Back with a new Savage Love next week. — Dan  I’m a 26-year-old straight female. I’m writing because I need to ask someone what to think right now. I just fucked a guy while … Read More »

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Dan Savage ([syndicated profile] savagelove_feed) wrote2025-06-19 09:00 pm

STRUGGLE SESSION: Pride Is (Still) Queer & Size Matters

Posted by Dan Savage

Hey, gang: I’m still traveling back and forth and up and down this grating country of ours to see family — Iowa and Illinois down, Arizona and Colorado left to go — so this week’s Struggle Session is gonna be quick: just one letter from a reader, sent via email, just one uncharacteristically brief response … Read More »

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Dan Savage ([syndicated profile] savagelove_feed) wrote2025-06-10 11:00 am

The Boyfriend Experience

Posted by Tracey Cataldo

My boyfriend went on a trip abroad with his friend (also a guy). After he came back, he showed me that he made a Bumble profile while he was there. I didn’t feel like anything was off or ask him to show me; he volunteered. He said that he was just curious to see how … Read More »

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Dan Savage ([syndicated profile] savagelove_feed) wrote2025-06-10 11:00 am

With Trans Comedian Nico Carney

Posted by Nancy Hartunian

When she was in high school, she surprised herself and delighted her boyfriend by squirting all over his face. But the incident alarmed her enough to set off a neurotic need to pee before every sexual encounter. How can she get out of her head about it, and allow for spontaneity in her current, awesome … Read More »

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